Having fun with non-verbal skills

By now you must have an idea about this vast area of non-verbal communications.  You could start to apply this knowledge  to your daily life and try to understand the people you interact with better.  Or even you could start to think about your own self in order to improve your messages.  This is a very easy and influential way with others and with what you say and do.  Well, if you do it right you are sure to be liked and trusted.  But on the other hand if you send the wrong signals maybe because you are unaware of it, your interaction and relationships with everybody around you will suffer. 

So, why suffer the consequences of poor communication when you have the chance to improve it and greatly enhance every aspect of your life.  Just think of it, probably if you had known this earlier, you could have landed that job you were after, or go out on that great date  you so much wanted !

You can see now, it pays off  to develop non-verbal skills....

Why I am saying  non-verbal skills are a sure way is because it is proven to accurately decode others' thoughts and actions.  You probably might be thinking  why is it so accurate.  It is so accurate because it is based on scientific research and tested and proven to work.

So, do you think you will start to apply it to your life?

While you think along those lines, lets have some fun applying it with people we know.

Consider the image (9) of President Barack Obama.

Image 9

Think about the intensity of his face.  He has a firmly set, somewhat  serious expression, which shows depth.  Look at the cheekbones and the strength of his jaw.  Doesn't his face exude strength?  This could said to be a powerful image.  So, can you see now that he actually has what it takes to be the president of a country like America.

Could you think about other leaders and persons you have met, and see if their body language gives out messages consistent with who they actually are.

Well, now you could have fun applying non-verbal skills with people around you.

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